Wife Vows Not To Return After Catching Husband With Another Woman
A 23-year-old woman caught her husband with another woman in his home and vowed never to return, ending their three-year marriage marked by repeated infidelity and abuse.
On July 8, Baem, a 23-year-old wife, opened up about her marriage after a video she posted went viral with 77 million views. She met her husband Ball at a factory party, and after dating for a month, she became pregnant. They registered their marriage but never held a wedding ceremony. Over their three years together, Ball was repeatedly unfaithful, but Baem forgave him each time to preserve the family, despite also suffering physical abuse including being threatened with a knife. Ball also had an online gambling problem.
When asked why she loved him, Baem said it was because he was handsome, charming, made her happy, and was good at winning her over. Their one-year-old child currently lives with Ball's parents. Although Ball's family knew about his behavior, they never intervened.
Baem explained that before the viral incident, they had argued and separated. Ball kept trying to win her back, and even asked to borrow 20 baht for internet and phone credit on Monday. On the day of the incident, while helping a senior register for a job and passing through Ball's neighborhood, she decided to stop by and found an unfamiliar car at his house. She entered and discovered a woman's shoes paired with his. Unable to resist, she opened the unlocked bedroom door and found him with another woman, attempting to slap his face.
Regarding the other woman, Baem believed she knew Ball was married, as he was conscious and there were photos in the room suggesting they had been communicating for months. Baem clarified that the Doraemon pillow and pink bedding belonged to Ball from the start. She had bought and washed all the bedsheets during their relationship, and after she moved out, he apparently removed them.
Baem admitted she posted the video because she was lonely and angry at Ball, wanting society to understand her frustration. She acknowledged receiving romantic interest from other men after posting about being single but said she wasn't ready. She denied having another boyfriend, saying those were just friends she ate and chatted with.
Baem confirmed she did not know posting the video was illegal but was angry that Ball protected another woman while hurting her. She noted that such videos were commonly posted in her factory community, so she thought it was acceptable.
Finally, Baem firmly stated she will never return to Ball.