Wife Heartbroken: Buddhist Monk Has Affair with Her Husband, Intimate Chats Revealed, Even Proposes Three-Person Relationship
A woman discovered her husband of 23 years was having an affair with a Buddhist monk after finding intimate chats and explicit photos on his phone; the monk even proposed they live together as a polyamorous trio, forcing her to leave with j
According to a report, a popular talk show discussed the case of a woman whose marriage collapsed after 23 years of marriage when she discovered her husband was secretly involved with a Buddhist monk. She was even pressured to accept a three-person relationship arrangement, causing immense pain. She left home with only 6,000 baht and sought help from a lawyer named Pattana for housing assistance.
The woman, known as Jah, explained that she had known her husband for 23 years and been legally married for about 5-6 years. Throughout their relationship, her husband had been caring and responsible, supporting their children well. He worked as a factory employee and later drove for a ride-sharing app. He was known as a kind and beloved person with no history of infidelity—until November 2568 (2025).
Her husband asked to borrow the car to pick up and drop off a monk for two consecutive days, claiming it was for a client. On the second day, he called her via video and sent a photo of the monk to confirm he had taken him to the temple in Korat. She didn't suspect anything then.
The truth emerged on New Year's Day when Jah saw her husband secretly chatting with someone, using the word "darling" and expressing affection. When she secretly checked his phone, the profile showed a man in a suit, but the messages contained New Year's wishes and declarations of deep love. She began monitoring his chats whenever he went to the bathroom. Initially, she thought it might be a woman using a man's photo, but by mid-January, she confirmed from photos and the profile's timeline that he was actually communicating with a Buddhist monk.
When she confronted her husband about the person's identity, he claimed it was a friend and said that saying "I love you" to the monk was an expression of faith, as the monk was a good person to talk to about everything. He admitted he no longer loved her.
Jah noted that her husband normally spoke to her casually using "I-you" language, but when talking to the monk, he spoke sweetly and referred to himself differently. She also had evidence of chats from February-March showing a clear sexual relationship, including explicit photos and sexual toy selections sent by the monk. Her husband responded: "Just touching yours would make me unable to control myself," which legal experts and the program host viewed as clear evidence of sexual activity.
Further evidence included photos of the monk wearing her husband's shirt while they went out to eat together. According to monastic discipline, this constitutes a violation known as "cross-dressing" or emulating a lay person's appearance, though it may not technically constitute disrobing unless there's intent to remain as a layperson.
The most shocking revelation was that the monk proposed they all live together as a polyamorous trio. Her husband told her that if she couldn't accept this, she would have to divorce and leave the house. Jah confirmed she is determined to fight for her dignity and rights.
